Scientists have invented a way to erase bad memories. But should we?

We may soon be able to delete bad memories for ever. But forgetting comes at a cost

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Steve Ramirez knows how devastating painful memories can be. In 2015, when he was a doctoral candidate working on manipulating memories in mice, his close friend and lab partner, Xu Liu, died unexpectedly at the age of 37.

Haunted by memories of his friend, he found himself struggling to cope with his work and daily life.

Initially, Ramirez, who is now a professor of neuroscience at Boston University, wanted to numb the memories, which, on the face of it, may have seemed like a good idea. But the way he went about it had serious consequences. He turned to alcohol – and developed a severe drinking problem.

The realisation that things had gone too far came years later, in February 2021, during a very average day in the office.

“I was thinking, ‘Okay, I’ve had three drinks and it’s 11am. How many more can I have throughout the day without being a mess at night?’” he says. As he pondered this, a rehab facility phoned to offer help – concerned friends had contacted them on his behalf.

“It clicked that in order for me to go to rehab, I’d have to take leave from work, and I wouldn’t really be around my friends or family,” he says. “The idea of losing everything suddenly became very real.”

A few days later, his friends and wife staged an intervention. The combination of events was eye-opening. “If there was ever a wake-up call, this was certainly it. And the next day, I went to my first group meeting.”

The meetings changed everything and Ramirez hasn’t had a drink since. “The group offered a connection with other people that I realised had been missing in my life since Xu died.”

Steve Ramirez (left) with his friend and former lab colleague Xu Liu
Steve Ramirez (left) with his friend and former lab colleague Xu Liu - Image credit: Boston University/Cydney Scott

Since then, Ramirez’s research has flourished and his memories of Liu’s death are helping to drive it forward, instead of being tied to feelings of helplessness.

Moreover, what he, and others like him, have found is that not only is it possible to manipulate painful memories like these, but you can do it without the harmful effects of alcohol.

Deleting brain cells

It’s still early days for research on memory editing, with most studies having only been carried out in animals. So far, the basic principles discovered suggest a sliding scale of possible interventions, from manipulation to complete deletion.

Memories are encoded in the brain as ‘memory traces’ – the physical changes that happen in the brain as you remember something. This can involve activity in a group of specific brain cells (neurons) or the wider connections between them.

The memory trace can get stronger or weaker over time. For example, it tends to strengthen during sleep. What’s more, every time we think of the memory, we may boost, weaken or even change it.

It’s during this process, called reconsolidation, that memories are modifiable – with a window of a few hours in humans.

This knowledge, along with advances in biotechnology, has given researchers the tools to manipulate memories.

One groundbreaking paper was published by a group of Canadian researchers in 2009. The team was able to pinpoint the brain cells in mice that lit up when the animals heard a sound that they’d come to associate with a mild electric shock, making them freeze with fear when they remembered it.

The researchers then managed to destroy those brain cells by targeting them with a chemical. Remarkably, after this intervention, the mice no longer froze when they heard the sound, suggesting the fearful memory had been erased.

An illustration of optogenetics, where light is used to control neurons
An illustration of optogenetics, where light is used to control neurons - Image credit: Science Photo Library

“It was a transformative paper,” says Ramirez. “They took advantage of the idea that some cells in the brain are more active than others and those that are more active are the ones that are more likely to become part of a memory.”

But can you be sure the memory has really been deleted based on behaviour alone? Ramirez admits that, although it certainly appears that way, we can’t be absolutely certain. “The absence of evidence isn’t evidence of absence,” he says. “It could still be there.”

He was, nevertheless, intrigued and followed up with more research in collaboration with Liu.

In 2012, Ramirez, Liu and other colleagues tried another approach. Rather than erasing cells, they tried to turn a memory on by activating particular brain cells using light from a fibre-optic cable inserted into the brains of genetically engineered mice (a method called optogenetics).

They started by identifying the brain cells in the hippocampus, the brain’s memory centre, that activated when the mice received an electric shock – suggesting these cells were encoding the memory.

A thin ribbon containing electrodes, sensors and a light emitting diode (LED) being threaded through a needle
Light from LEDs like this can be used to stimulate specific neural pathways in the brain - Image credit: Science Photo Library

They then put the mice in a new environment (where there was nothing to remind them of the shock) and activated those same cells with light.

The result? The mice froze with fear in the absence of either a shock or a triggering cue. It appeared they had turned a memory on through cellular stimulation alone, strengthening the idea that memory can be manipulated through targeting brain cells.

From there, the findings kept rolling in. In a paper the following year, Liu and Ramirez used a similar method to implant a false memory into mice.

They also discovered that it’s possible to change emotions linked to specific memories. In this study, they activated a positive memory in mice while they were receiving a shock.

“When we did this, the memory of the shocks became less negative,” says Ramirez.

Fast forward a decade, and Ramirez and his colleagues are still uncovering fascinating insights.

In 2022, they showed that if you activate a positive memory in mice that are simultaneously recalling a negative memory, during the all-important reconsolidation phase, you can permanently suppress it – getting rid of fear responses. “This effect lasted for months,” says Ramirez.

What about humans?

It’s unlikely that these treatments will be offered to humans anytime soon. “What we do in rodents is very likely translatable to humans.

"But we have to be clever about it because we don’t want to go in and start engineering human brain cells or invasively modulating their activity without a scientifically and medically sound plan. Who knows what kind of unsafe side-effects could end up happening,” says Ramirez.

Instead, researchers, including Prof Emily Holmes, a clinical psychologist and neuroscientist from Uppsala University in Sweden, are trying to find non-invasive methods.

“I’m a big fan of some of the basic work that’s been done on mice. This research teaches us about the basic principles of memory, such as timings. We’ve drawn quite a lot on some of the original animal work.”

While there are promising methods to manipulate memories in humans, there’s no way to permanently delete them yet. But manipulation could well be the start.

It’s possible to weaken memories in humans and stop them flashing back, as they do in conditions like PTSD, with pharmacological or behavioural interventions.

Photo of a person following a finger with their eyes
Eye movement is thought to play a role in memory and recalling painful experiences, while tracking objects can, with professional help, reduce how frightening those memories feel - Image credit: Science Photo Library

One popular, evidence-based method is cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), in which a therapist works with a client to help them reframe negative memories to make them feel less threatening.

This is supported by the work in mice showing that you can weaken a negative memory by activating a positive one.

Another approach, eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR), trains the brain to reprocess memories so they become less frightening.

For example, when recalling the memory during the reconsolidation window, people may be asked to simultaneously focus on something else, such as sounds, tapping or a moving object, disrupting the process.

In 2012, a team of researchers showed that when human participants viewed a neutral picture, accompanied by an electric shock, a memory trace appeared in a part of the brain that processes fear, called the amygdala.

The participants were then shown the images without the shock. Some were allowed to complete the reconsolidation process after seeing it, while others had theirs disrupted by being shown the image repeatedly.

The group that had been disrupted weren’t as fearful afterwards, while their brain scans showed that the memory trace appeared to have been erased. That said, it was a laboratory experiment and there are still no clinical trials to back it up.

It therefore remains to be seen if this would work in people with long-term, complex emotional memories.

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Fighting flashbacks

Drugs may help, too. Benzodiazepines and propofol, for example, can help prevent the formation of new memories. They can be used for surgical procedures where full anaesthesia isn’t possible.

Others, such as propranolol and metyrapone, may weaken memory during the reconsolidation window. But the evidence on whether these drugs work is mixed.

Meanwhile, Holmes has come up with a brand-new approach to try to erase ‘flashbacks’, the intrusive snapshots of memories that pop into our heads without warning.

She has long been interested in the fact that traumatic flashbacks are highly visual – they typically don’t appear as words.

In one study, she examined what happens in the brain when we do something highly visual, such as playing a video game. “We put people in a brain scanner and what we found is that your brain lights up when you play the computer game Tetris in a similar place as when people have flashbacks,” she says.

An illustration of the brain, with the amygdala, and its fear-processing neurons, highlighted in red
An illustration of the brain, with the amygdala, and its fear-processing neurons, highlighted in red - Image credit: Science Photo Library

She has since developed a surprisingly simple technique to reduce flashbacks by essentially hijacking that visual part of the brain.

After you recall the memory of the flashback, you play Tetris for 20 minutes, but do so by carefully focusing on integrating the different shapes together, rather than simply letting them stack up.

In a recent randomised controlled trial with nurses working in intensive care units during the COVID pandemic, Holmes showed this one intervention could reduce their flashbacks from an average of 14 per week to just one per week a month later.

This is exciting, she says, as not everyone wants to talk about their trauma.

Ramirez says the result is “brilliant. I think a lot of interventions in humans will end up being like this.”

Where do I sign up?

But what about the future? If scientists found a way to safely delete memories in humans, should we do it?

Both Holmes and Ramirez think manipulation is more desirable than complete erasure. As Holmes argues, if your hand hurts enough, you might consider chopping it off. But no clinician would agree to do that if there were other ways to “treat the pain and make the hand function again”.

“Up to 80 per cent of people say that they wouldn’t want their memories, any of them, ever erased,” says Ramirez. This isn’t particularly surprising – our memories help make us who we are; they’re a core part of our identity, whether they’re good or bad.

For the other 20 per cent, however, traumatic memories may be debilitating.

Still, Ramirez thinks complete memory erasure is inherently a bad idea. "We know enough about how memory works that we can go in and start chiselling [away at them] instead,” he says.

“We could turn the volume down on the negative, emotional components, while leaving the memory of an event – and presumably all the influences it has on our sense of self and identity – intact. ”

One reason why memory erasure is dangerous relates to justice, says Holmes. “If we delete the memory, how is that person going to testify in court or a tribunal? How will we ever write history?” she asks.

Indeed, getting justice may be crucial in rebuilding your life after a traumatic, criminal event.

What’s more, deleting a memory may not make us happier. Take people who’ve been given the date-rape drug Rohypnol, which impairs memory. “The person can’t recall the event, they can’t remember the details,” explains Holmes, who has worked with people who’ve been put in this horrific situation.

“But they’re still very unwell, because sometimes it’s worse to have had a trauma and not be able to put the puzzle together.” Even if the brain doesn’t remember, the body might.

Tetris-like blocks falling into a structure
Trials have shown the computer game Tetris can help people reduce the frequency of flashbacks - Image credit: Getty Images

This isn’t just true for trauma. You may want to forget your evil ex, but if you did, how would you learn to make better choices going forward? Bad memories are an opportunity to learn and progress.

It’s hard to judge someone who’s completely overwhelmed by traumatic memories for wanting to get rid of them. But at the same time, it’s difficult to ignore all the good that can come from a bad memory.

Art, literature, music – the most moving creations are often born out of pain and trauma.

Many charitable organisations have no doubt been started by people who share similar negative experiences. And we know that creativity and altruism can ultimately boost our wellbeing and help heal us.

It may be that we sometimes need to suppress bad memories temporarily. But there may come a time when we’ll be grateful that we still have our memories intact.

Does Ramirez agree? I asked him whether he’d take the option to have the negative memories of his friend Liu’s death deleted. He responds instantly.

“I always knew I never wanted any of those memories erased. Resolution doesn’t have to happen instantaneously, it might not happen until decades later. And I’d like to think that life is long enough for those full-circle moments which imbue the past with more meaning are waiting just around the corner.”

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